Regardless of how you choose to pronounce it, welcome back. Us grey-heads need to stick together . Both DW & I are 70 and in our 46th year of marriage.

hastentheday wrote: ↑Sat Apr 10, 2021 6:19 am I think a married couple should call it whatever they want. Maybe even a pet name if they so desire.

Ditto that...

PaulB wrote: ↑Sat Apr 10, 2021 12:57 pm I have good news for you - you are 25% larger than average. So you can stop worrying!

What he said...

We do the exact same thing. Wife can't do PIV sex anymore, but we do enjoy "jack and Jill time". Doesn't bother me at all that we can't do full sex. Took my wife a bit to get over masturbating to orgasm, but she does and enjoys it. I definitely miss PIV because a hand [hers or mine] canno...

Since you linked Shaunti's public statement, there may be interest in Sheila Gregoire's public response to that statement , which clarifies a number of important points. This is a fascinating discussion. I, for one, am glad not so much for the disagreement, but that there can be disagreement withou...

Summer - mainly because I was coming back from a year away overseas and was going to college in the fall. Gave us time to get married, honeymoon and pack & leave.

Due to a medical situation, DW and I are not able to have PIV intimacy at this time so we enjoy "Jack & Jill" time instead. While I would be delighted to "get right to it", DW needs "warming up" so I normally do light, non-sexual, whole body caressing for about 10-1...

A few of the things I try to do to let her know she is loved:
- Make her coffee every morning when she wakes up
- Send a daily e-card to let her know I am thinking of her
- Always hold her hand when out for walks.
- Weekly happy hour date night

DW is eyes closed, especially as she gets near climax. She says what others have, that it is helpful to her focusing on her pleasure. Mine are always open as I delight in watching her body and her responses to her climax.

Praying with and for you both ...