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by David
Sat Apr 17, 2021 12:38 pm
Forum: Activities & Items
Topic: The role of the (literal) bed
Replies: 33
Views: 2407

Re: The role of the (literal) bed

We've just replaced our mattress. The previous one was about 7 years old and had seen plenty of use, and probably wasn't especially expensive to start with. New mattress is much firmer and sensations are definitely different. Edge of the bed positions just became possible.
by David
Sat Apr 17, 2021 6:29 am
Forum: Oral Sex
Topic: Practice doesn't make perfect?
Replies: 16
Views: 566

Re: Practice doesn't make perfect?

My wife finds this difficult too. A couple of things that might help: 1. get into the right mood. If *you* are relaxed and enjoying it, it will be much easier for him to relax and enjoy it. Make sure you're both in a comfortable position, and let him know you're enjoying it (maybe moan, or say somet...
by David
Mon Apr 12, 2021 11:36 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: Taking my wife
Replies: 41
Views: 2256

Re: Taking my wife

I hope that I'm wrong, but from what I've read I think it's likely that your wife is no longer a Christian. It also sounds like she's settled in her decision that your marriage is over, but is scared to instruct a lawyer and file for divorce. I think it's possible that she's controlling and manipula...
by David
Sun Apr 11, 2021 5:28 am
Forum: Other Non-sexual Marriage Issues
Topic: The Billy Graham Rule
Replies: 64
Views: 1616

Re: The Billy Graham Rule

As I understand it, the Billy Graham Rule wasn't so much to protect himself from temptation (though it may have helped), but to protect him from false allegations. When I worked with youth organisations, a fairly standard rule was never to be alone with a child. This wasn't so much to protect the ch...
by David
Sun Apr 11, 2021 5:14 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: Taking my wife
Replies: 41
Views: 2256

Re: Taking my wife

I think what your wife has said about male friends and hobbies is true. It is also a distraction from solving the problems in your marriage. It would be wise to spend time making friends and spending time on hobbies, but don't do this to the exclusion of trying to fix your marriage. For what it's wo...
by David
Sat Apr 10, 2021 7:38 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: Taking my wife
Replies: 41
Views: 2256

Re: Taking my wife

It sounds to me like your wife needs to make up her mind and stop trying to have things both ways. Either she needs to decide that your marriage is worth saving and do something to fight for it, like couples therapy, OR she needs to decide that it's over and file for divorce. I think you need to lov...
by David
Sat Apr 10, 2021 7:23 am
Forum: On-Topic Chit-Chat
Topic: Will changing the name help?
Replies: 10
Views: 404

Re: Will changing the name help?

Personally I'm not convinced.
I don't really see that toy is a particularly inaccurate description of what a vibrator is for, but if people want a different euphemism then I don't really object.
by David
Fri Apr 02, 2021 7:42 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: Taking my wife
Replies: 41
Views: 2256

Re: Taking my wife

Sounds like there's lots of long-term problems here, but having sex with your wife in that manner won't help anything. It sounds to me like you need to decide between you whether you're going to divorce or not. If you're going to divorce, instruct lawyers and get it done. I disapprove of doing that,...
by David
Sun Mar 28, 2021 5:37 am
Forum: Body Parts & Body Care
Topic: Vaginal tenting
Replies: 4
Views: 431

Re: Vaginal tenting

During arousal, two things happen to the size of the vagina. The uterus tilts to allow the vagina to lengthen so that it can accommodate a penis. The muscles in the vaginal wall relax to accommodate the girth of a penis. I suspect that in theory it's possible to train the vagina to become longer, al...
by David
Sat Mar 27, 2021 10:23 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 3/26/2021 - if you could redo one room in your house...
Replies: 18
Views: 743

Re: 3/26/2021 - if you could redo one room in your house...

Kitchen followed by bathroom.
I don't think the kitchen is that old, but the quality of the workmanship isn't especially high, and the splashbacks are a lurid green colour.
We repainted the walls blue, so we'd get splashbacks that complement that rather better.

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