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by SeekingChange
Thu Feb 25, 2021 10:08 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: Hearing attraction/sexual struggles
Replies: 41
Views: 1853

Re: Hearing attraction/sexual struggles

@I-ran-my-K ( ;) :lol: ) I think you are fine, and I know you aren't "the only one" who feels that way.
by SeekingChange
Thu Feb 25, 2021 9:26 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 2/25/2021 - What is the first thing you miss?
Replies: 11
Views: 298

Re: 2/25/2021 - What is the first thing you miss?

I know this will sound cold, but I have read it goes with my personality type.... if I knew it was a temporary, short-term thing, and I felt safe where I was, I wouldn't miss much. I would take full advantage of being alone. (We've discussed this trait about me, as a mom and a wife. There used to be...
by SeekingChange
Wed Feb 24, 2021 11:07 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: Hearing attraction/sexual struggles
Replies: 41
Views: 1853

Re: Hearing attraction/sexual struggles

That said I have mostly got that going in some places. The process is painfully slow, and for me, it takes some concentrated effort. It progresses like this: At first, I get upset, say or do something based on that, and feel justified. Then I get upset, and hours (or more) later I realise I was wro...
by SeekingChange
Wed Feb 24, 2021 7:13 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: When does your "foreplay" or pursuit begin?
Replies: 12
Views: 583

Re: When does your "foreplay" or pursuit begin?

I don't know if all women are this way, but outside factors can override anything my husband does. In those situations, he could be absolutely perfect in his behavior and interaction with me, but it's not going to override the other things in my brain. But, there are things he could do to make it wo...
by SeekingChange
Wed Feb 24, 2021 5:09 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 02/24/2021 - Who has the better bedside manner?
Replies: 13
Views: 753

Re: 02/24/2021 - Who has the better bedside manner?

With the children, me. When they were sick, it was a great day to cuddle up and watch movies. With each other, him. Even when he's sick, he feels life must go on as normal, therefore if he refuses to rest while he is sick, then I have chosen not to treat him as though he is sick. If he can work, aga...
by SeekingChange
Tue Feb 23, 2021 12:52 pm
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: Hearing attraction/sexual struggles
Replies: 41
Views: 1853

Re: Hearing attraction/sexual struggles

I definitely believe this is an area where it comes down to personal conviction. If we are seeking the Spirit, a striving to live for Christ and are becoming more like Him, God has a way of working things out to His will and for His purpose. In Scripture, I do see that He covers my sin, He acts as t...
by SeekingChange
Tue Feb 23, 2021 8:13 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: Hearing attraction/sexual struggles
Replies: 41
Views: 1853

Re: Hearing attraction/sexual struggles

Of course, you have to know your spouse won't take it personally, won't attack you, and won't play cold fish. For a mature Christian couple that should be easy. But most of us were not mature when we got married. :roll: [/color] I am not sure I agree with this, but it may depend on what you mean by...
by SeekingChange
Tue Feb 23, 2021 7:25 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 02/23/21 - What shows are you into?
Replies: 25
Views: 1158

Re: 02/23/21 - What shows are you into?

I rarely follow a show as it's aired, the occasional The Voice season is an exception. I am more of a binge watcher. Even on Netfilx, when they put out episodes, I wait until the season is done and then watch. I am currently not watching any show, but I have enjoyed The Office, Parks and Rec, and I ...
by SeekingChange
Tue Feb 23, 2021 6:45 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 02/16/21 - If you could know the truth....
Replies: 23
Views: 1293

Re: 02/16/21 - If you could know the truth....

Will our daughter fall in love with God with her whole heart eventually? I thought of a question like this, and decided I wasn't sure I wanted to know, because what if the answer is "no". I can almost guarantee that would negatively affect my faith and how I would relate to them. Could yo...
by SeekingChange
Tue Feb 23, 2021 6:40 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 02/23/21 - What shows are you into?
Replies: 25
Views: 1158

02/23/21 - What shows are you into?

A simple question, but a way to get to know one another...

What shows are you into? Is there a particular reason why you are into it/them?

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