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by LBD
Thu Feb 25, 2021 9:52 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: Hearing attraction/sexual struggles
Replies: 41
Views: 1845

Re: Hearing attraction/sexual struggles

Rahab - she was prostitute and liar - yet she is counted as faithful and in the lineage of Christ. What if she had held the edict of absolute truth? I believe God would have worked another way to protect the spies. Pretty much all the heroes of the Bible did things that God says aren’t right. They ...
by LBD
Thu Feb 25, 2021 9:29 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 2/25/2021 - What is the first thing you miss?
Replies: 11
Views: 294

Re: 2/25/2021 - What is the first thing you miss?

SeekingChange wrote:if I knew it was a temporary, short-term thing, and I felt safe where I was, I wouldn't miss much. I would take full advantage of being alone.
^^^pretty much describes my own independent wife.
by LBD
Thu Feb 25, 2021 9:26 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 02/24/2021 - Who has the better bedside manner?
Replies: 13
Views: 751

Re: 02/24/2021 - Who has the better bedside manner?

Me, no doubt. My DW doesn’t do empathy well at all. Nor does she take on a nurse persona if I’m down (like now), but maybe she’s softening a little with age- she did make and bring me a cup of soup last night. She usually has to be prompted into acts of service. I, on the other hand, actively seek t...
by LBD
Thu Feb 25, 2021 9:20 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: Hearing attraction/sexual struggles
Replies: 41
Views: 1845

Re: Hearing attraction/sexual struggles

Rahab - she was prostitute and liar - yet she is counted as faithful and in the lineage of Christ. What if she had held the edict of absolute truth?
by LBD
Tue Feb 23, 2021 3:55 pm
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: Hearing attraction/sexual struggles
Replies: 41
Views: 1845

Re: Hearing attraction/sexual struggles

Perfect example OldBear -


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by LBD
Mon Feb 22, 2021 8:18 pm
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: Hearing attraction/sexual struggles
Replies: 41
Views: 1845

Hearing attraction/sexual struggles

I struggled with porn for many years. My wife knows this. We had a “D-day” about 15 years ago. She also knew/knows there would be future struggles. She trusts me to handle those. She has specifically said she has no desire or need to hear about every one of them. So I give her that. When something c...
by LBD
Sun Feb 21, 2021 7:40 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 02/17/2021 - Kids and Sex Life?
Replies: 20
Views: 1160

Re: 02/17/2021 - Kids and Sex Life?

I don’t know what your “### “ was supposed to be, but I have injected the word “sponges” there often. Mimics could also be used. Specifically, you are actively modeling the kind of spouse your child will seek as well as modeling how they will treat their spouse. Lots of ways that can turn out. Hah....
by LBD
Sun Feb 21, 2021 5:01 am
Forum: Oral Sex
Topic: If cunnilingus is "nature", why not fellatio?
Replies: 39
Views: 1989

If cunnilingus is "nature", why not fellatio?

I would agree with @HerKnight. Our attitude to the responses makes a HUGE difference in these matters. Positively handling rejection of sex or a specific sexual act is difficult, no doubt. But doing so can absolutely mean the difference in ever, or never, having any hope for it in the future. I was ...
by LBD
Sun Feb 21, 2021 4:52 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 02/17/2021 - Kids and Sex Life?
Replies: 20
Views: 1160

Re: 02/17/2021 - Kids and Sex Life?

The very first thing I would and have told young couples is that your job is to prove and live the example that your kids are NOT the center of the universe. In practice, this means your spouse is top priority, they are second. ... I second this though I might go more positive in its expression. I ...
by LBD
Sun Feb 21, 2021 4:29 am
Forum: Grade School aged children
Topic: Sons and Masturbating
Replies: 21
Views: 897

Re: Sons and Masturbating

I am also very shy. My DH has no interest in speaking to him. Telling your 11 year old that you catch MB that it’s wrong but not wrong when I was one that walked in on him. To say embarrassing is a understatement. [emoji23] Read this statement and two thoughts came to mind. First, “telling him it’s...

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