OK, this came from the DW... How many of you have have some tendency towards seasonal sex positions, activities, and opportunities? I know someone jokes around here that their spouse only has a 1 degree temperature variation either direction before they're uncomfortable. For instance, it's cold here...

I'd miss the cuddles and touch at night, in the morning, in the middle of the night (except when I'm already hot or my shoulder is bothering me). I'd want all those times back, taking her in my arms and making love.

This thread coming alive again is bringing back a flood of old memories and newer ones ::alarm since this post was made!!! Isn’t God good to give us reoccurring mental pics to sustain us, help us choose to remain faithful mentally and physically, and keep the fires burning? ::pray ::praise We are fe...

That said I have mostly got that going in some places. The process is painfully slow, and for me, it takes some concentrated effort. It progresses like this: At first, I get upset, say or do something based on that, and feel justified. Then I get upset, and hours (or more) later I realise I was wro...

"Pinky" does wonders for DW. It's the Jelly Eager Beaver (rotating dual-action vibe) at marrieddance.com. It wasn't a lot to spend for DW to try her first major insertable toy and the "results" have been WAY more than just "satisfying"!

Many of us men do exactly what you ladies indicated you need but it seems to do little to affect the outcome we long for. It seems as you say, we can do everything right and some outside force kills it and we can become hardened to trying anymore. I don't know if women really understand how hurtful...

@NWNL's coffee story caused my heart rate to tick up a bit even before I read his wife's reaction, because I knew what her reaction was going to be. I did too. :lol: DW needed to get up and start studying for a MAJOR test tomorrow in an extremely difficult class...but I just couldn't resist the ask...

I heard the following quotes this morning: "Foreplay begins when the orgasm ends" and "the body goes where the brain tells it". So it seems to lead then to the following questions: Am I pursuing my wife because I love her and not just for sex? Am I being more intentional about my...

Dear wife is much more empathetic, kind and generous...just some of the great reasons I married her.

In all secret things, confession is the key to bring "darkness" (the attraction) out into the "light" (no longer secret). The question seems to me then, to whom should the confession be made? That is the question asked, should it be the spouse? Or another? I've fallen on the &quo...