Brynna wrote: ↑Mon Apr 19, 2021 9:27 am Another fond memory is the anniversary trip we took, the first time ever, and spending a couple nights by ourselves. The first time in 20 years that DH and I spent nights without any children under the same roof.

Good for you!!! Every couple needs to do that!!!

I don't like the term obligatory sex. While it's true I am lower drive and have responsive desire, I in no way see it as an "obligation". I choose to serve my husband with love and enthusiasm. I enjoy those "just for him" times almost as much as as the other times I don't like i...

@ SC, I am so honored & blessed to be your life partner & recipient of your change in OMB - Our Marriage Bed, as you found TMB - The Marriage Bed! I ♥️ U so much my beautiful bride of over 26 years! Jesus has been so good to us! I look forward to our best years ahead, in Jesus name! 🌷 PS - ...

...I'm trying to get much better about something that was said here about offering sex when you know your spouse needs it ...I no longer see that situation as being obligatory, but more of me seeing to his needs. .... ::praise DG, this is a selfless act and a Christ-like action. I see and feel that...

I was reading a recent book* that conducted a survey of 20,000 Christian women. One of the takeaways was that almost no sexless marriages were caused by women giving up on sex without some kind of underlying cause. Five contributing factors were found that correlated strongly with sexless marriages...

1) REC - not too often right now, more when we go away 3) Release sex? Purely? Probably one quickie a week for me (This would be a #4 situation for DW) 2) & 4) We are probably more like at 2-4x/wk for connection, comfort or makeup sex, and even “obligatory” sex with dear wife choosing to lovingl...

Oh man, there are so many! DW keeps giving me new ones every year. The one we just talked about last week was from our vacation last year at a friend’s vacation home. We spent most of it naked by the pool but DW bought a ladies THIN white cotton tshirt (thin like a man has worn it since his college ...

What percentage of the following 4 categories/kinds of sex would you categorize your sex life? How often do you & your spouse come together with different desires/expectations/reasons? Is that ok? Is it bad? If you’re not happy with some of your categorization, what can you do to grow yourself a...

At first I looked at it as a way I could bless him and encourage intimacy between us, but with time have come to enjoy giving and to look forward to it. Completion is sometimes difficult due to his exhaustion or emotional state, but then I just try to create a mood where I am just making love to hi...

As he tells the story, we wore out a set of SkipBo cards over the course of our engagement, so he’ll sometimes give them, with an explanation of their purpose, to young friends when they get engaged. ;) I'm missing something here. What's their purpose? It was a purposed distraction. Go sit at the k...