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by newwifenewlife
Mon Apr 19, 2021 10:17 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 04/19/2021 - Milestone Marriage Bed Event
Replies: 12
Views: 411

Re: 04/19/2021 - Milestone Marriage Bed Event

Brynna wrote: Mon Apr 19, 2021 9:27 am Another fond memory is the anniversary trip we took, the first time ever, and spending a couple nights by ourselves. The first time in 20 years that DH and I spent nights without any children under the same roof.
Good for you!!! Every couple needs to do that!!!
by newwifenewlife
Mon Apr 19, 2021 8:32 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: What kind of sex are you having?
Replies: 11
Views: 377

Re: What kind of sex are you having?

I don't like the term obligatory sex. While it's true I am lower drive and have responsive desire, I in no way see it as an "obligation". I choose to serve my husband with love and enthusiasm. I enjoy those "just for him" times almost as much as as the other times I don't like i...
by newwifenewlife
Mon Apr 19, 2021 7:56 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 04/19/2021 - Milestone Marriage Bed Event
Replies: 12
Views: 411

Re: 04/19/2021 - Milestone Marriage Bed Event

@ SC, I am so honored & blessed to be your life partner & recipient of your change in OMB - Our Marriage Bed, as you found TMB - The Marriage Bed! I ♥️ U so much my beautiful bride of over 26 years! Jesus has been so good to us! I look forward to our best years ahead, in Jesus name! 🌷 PS - ...
by newwifenewlife
Mon Apr 19, 2021 6:56 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: What kind of sex are you having?
Replies: 11
Views: 377

Re: What kind of sex are you having?

...I'm trying to get much better about something that was said here about offering sex when you know your spouse needs it ...I no longer see that situation as being obligatory, but more of me seeing to his needs. .... ::praise DG, this is a selfless act and a Christ-like action. I see and feel that...
by newwifenewlife
Mon Apr 19, 2021 6:12 am
Forum: The Science of Sex
Topic: Causes of Sexless Marriages
Replies: 16
Views: 850

Re: Causes of Sexless Marriages

I was reading a recent book* that conducted a survey of 20,000 Christian women. One of the takeaways was that almost no sexless marriages were caused by women giving up on sex without some kind of underlying cause. Five contributing factors were found that correlated strongly with sexless marriages...
by newwifenewlife
Mon Apr 19, 2021 4:17 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: What kind of sex are you having?
Replies: 11
Views: 377

Re: What kind of sex are you having?

1) REC - not too often right now, more when we go away 3) Release sex? Purely? Probably one quickie a week for me (This would be a #4 situation for DW) 2) & 4) We are probably more like at 2-4x/wk for connection, comfort or makeup sex, and even “obligatory” sex with dear wife choosing to lovingl...
by newwifenewlife
Mon Apr 19, 2021 3:54 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 04/19/2021 - Milestone Marriage Bed Event
Replies: 12
Views: 411

Re: 04/19/2021 - Milestone Marriage Bed Event

Oh man, there are so many! DW keeps giving me new ones every year. The one we just talked about last week was from our vacation last year at a friend’s vacation home. We spent most of it naked by the pool but DW bought a ladies THIN white cotton tshirt (thin like a man has worn it since his college ...
by newwifenewlife
Sun Apr 18, 2021 3:02 pm
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: What kind of sex are you having?
Replies: 11
Views: 377

What kind of sex are you having?

What percentage of the following 4 categories/kinds of sex would you categorize your sex life? How often do you & your spouse come together with different desires/expectations/reasons? Is that ok? Is it bad? If you’re not happy with some of your categorization, what can you do to grow yourself a...
by newwifenewlife
Sat Apr 17, 2021 1:28 pm
Forum: Oral Sex
Topic: Practice doesn't make perfect?
Replies: 16
Views: 566

Re: Practice doesn't make perfect?

At first I looked at it as a way I could bless him and encourage intimacy between us, but with time have come to enjoy giving and to look forward to it. Completion is sometimes difficult due to his exhaustion or emotional state, but then I just try to create a mood where I am just making love to hi...
by newwifenewlife
Sat Apr 17, 2021 8:32 am
Forum: On-Topic Chit-Chat
Topic: Who Waited Until Marriage to Have Sex?
Replies: 25
Views: 692

Re: Who Waited Until Marriage to Have Sex?

As he tells the story, we wore out a set of SkipBo cards over the course of our engagement, so he’ll sometimes give them, with an explanation of their purpose, to young friends when they get engaged. ;) I'm missing something here. What's their purpose? It was a purposed distraction. Go sit at the k...

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