Lack of sex drive due to porn reboot

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TJC
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Re: Lack of sex drive due to porn reboot

Postby TJC » Sun Apr 02, 2017 5:01 am

On a different not, I was correct in my impression that DW was saving up her release for one last hurrah before surgery. She has told me before that she finds waiting for longer periods of time makes her O more enjoyable, so no surprise there. That concept is probably worthy of it's own thread and is a big part in her reluctance to engage in the the frequency that I desire. She does not so much deny my release as much as deny herself for the sake of a more intense experience at some future date. Lots to think about there.
At any rate for now, the beast has abated, although I have no illusions that he will not return at some future time. I live to fight another day by God's grace.
This is my beloved and this is my friend. Song of Solomon 5:16

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Re: Lack of sex drive due to porn reboot

Postby bigloop » Mon Apr 03, 2017 1:02 pm

it is a safer path emotionally than pursuing her, which is a huge part of my attraction to porn. I's a slippery slope


...like deer guts on the door step... You are wise to be careful.

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Re: Lack of sex drive due to porn reboot

Postby TJC » Mon May 08, 2017 6:28 am

Fell again yesterday... I had seen this coming for awhile. It had been more of a struggle with DW having her surgery and all. I learned something about myself in all this though. I've allowed myself to get so wrapped up in taking care of her and our relationship, I neglected my own self care and growth in Christ. So back to my own spiritual devotion, so that I have some strength to give. I've let myself become depleted.
This is my beloved and this is my friend. Song of Solomon 5:16


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