PS56 wrote:The point I was really getting at, is that if a husband and/or wife are looking at porn regularly because they like it, then there is virtually a 100% certainty (in my opinion) that this is going to damage the marriage and the relationship with the spouse (as well as the relationsip with God.) There is no such thing as a healthy desire for regular and recreational porn veiwing (regardless of whether the performers are being harmed in some way).
2 points of agreement
1. The essential self-centeredness of our sin nature leads us to compare ourselves to others. Watching others will inevitably lead to some degree of comparisons [and they can be relative non-conscious] around, looks, performance, etc.
2. Scripture encourages us - "Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things." What I set before my eyes I will think about.