Never experienced the big O or any O during sex :(

Can't orgasm, pain during intercourse, etc.
Ellemay
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Never experienced the big O or any O during sex :(

Postby Ellemay » Thu Feb 05, 2015 5:00 pm

I'm not really getting a ton of pleasure from sex with my husband and I don't know what to tell him to do differently. I think the problem is a combination of me and his approach. How do I fix this? Sex just isn't that fun with him :( and I'm not feeling much of a connection to him. Is that normal? Also we have been married for almost 5 years so it's not like we are newly weds trying to figure things out.

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Re: Never experienced the big O or any O during sex :(

Postby rn » Fri Feb 06, 2015 5:15 am

First, you need to learn how to O. Use a vibrator or your fingers, and lube. Once you've figured out how to O, you can teach DH. Straight PIV isn't that great for me. It feels much better after I O. A good book for both you and DH would be She Comes First.

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Re: Never experienced the big O or any O during sex :(

Postby Maneo » Wed Feb 25, 2015 11:35 pm

Does your husband get pleasure from your intimacy ?
Though married for 5 years, was your marriage bed ever satisfying for you? Is it correct to assume neither of you had any sexual experiences before you married?


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