Only orgasm via toys?

Can't orgasm, pain during intercourse, etc.
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Only orgasm via toys?

Postby love2 » Wed Nov 01, 2017 5:01 pm

I was wondering if there was anyone else out there that only orgasms via toys (vibrator)?

I don't orgasm through manual sex or oral sex. I also don't orgasm through PIV or PIA. Pretty much it's a vibrator if I want to orgasm. Most the time I am fine with this but sometimes I think about us working on it until I orgasm through oral sex or manual sex.

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Re: Only orgasm via toys?

Postby SeekingChange » Thu Nov 02, 2017 5:26 am

As someone who always orgasmed without the aid of a vibrator, to finding the ease and convenience of using one, I have noticed I have trained my body where it's more dependent on it. I do think that you could train your body the opposite way, but it will take more work, because it would be like going uphill, where my direction was sliding downhill.
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Re: Only orgasm via toys?

Postby tentsofpurple » Thu Nov 02, 2017 5:50 am

Similar to seeking I don't need a vibrator to orgasm (actually I haven't found one that doesn't leave me feeling numb), but I have noticed that if I orgasm by a certain means (oral vs. manual, g-spot stimulation vs. none) without changing it up for a regular interval my body gets used to that and it becomes difficult to orgasm another way. Its still achievable (depending on where I am in my cycle) but it takes longer and is more "work." I bet you could train your body to orgasm another way but it might take a while.

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Re: Only orgasm via toys?

Postby Tweed » Fri Nov 03, 2017 10:07 pm

There are a host of other issues in our MB, but just wanted to say I've never had an orgasm from oral or PIV. I certainly understand the desire of wanting an O to be reached as a direct result of intimacy with your DH and not always through a toy. I would only suggest that whichever way you go, you give yourself lots of grace and hold expectations loosely if you decide to work on it without toys. Blessings on you!

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Re: RE: Re: Only orgasm via toys?

Postby love2 » Fri Nov 03, 2017 10:21 pm

Thanks for your response. I think you are right too. What are some of the other issues that you have in your marriage bed if you don't mind me asking?


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