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He doesn't say anything when I get lazy & let my leg hair grow out a bit.
He knows that it will bother me soon enough just like I know he would get bored with shaving his legs.
As a side note: I will say that I know when he's been sharpening knives. He's missing patches of hair on 1 arm. lol
You never know until you try & it's not permanent, just hair. I say go for it.
Regarding pubic hair, I only shave around the base of my shaft every couple of months. Both DW and I feel a full bush looks good. As I shower everyday, she is fine with me not shaving feels hair makes me look more manly She gives me OS every time we have sex.
I would not want him to shave his legs. I enjoy his body hair. There are patterns that I have become familiar with over the years and it is part of our special closeness for me to know his map.
So first question is, what sort of blade and what quality of shave will you need? I shaved with a blade at first but if anyone knows the property of blades, we all know that too many shaves and you get bumps and it feels irritating. So with a blade you shave every other day or on the third day. Close cuddle with DW must be done with her on day 1 shave. That is the day to have sex and rub bodies together. wait any additional day and she WILL complain. The blade gives the absolute closest shave. Then there's the micro screen shavers and the quality of micro screen depends on the shaver and here is where you want to spend some money. Regular "manscape" trimmers are not necessarily good enough. Perhaps the manscape trimmers are good for a body builder with dark body hair. If you want a good consistent quality body or pubic shave, use a high quality micro screen shaver with 2 screens and a blade underneath that vibrates really fast.
As with any new area you shave, once you start, you gotta keep it up. For those testicles, a blade will cut off everything and the hair is already so fine that trims done every other day is good enough, again, in my experience.
I did leg shaving for years as a marathon runner and close to a race I shaved everything. It was a great sexual experience. But again, lots of time shaving everything so that DW would not experience a poor shaving job of chest, legs or pubic area.
My wife shaves her pubic area completely at my request and trade that I regrow chest and leg hair. She does a poor job of shaving her pubic bone in ignorance because she says she hates it and lets me know. We cannot do PIV so she accommodates me accordingly and I look forward to her shave days so I can touch her area for a thrill.
If you got the time and your shaver is a micro screen, you could shave daily to maintain it on legs, chest and groin. Sex is very good hairless and her parts look great shaved. But again its a matter of preference and time you have to do it. In the post modern age, we have the technology to own many great shavers, but knowledge of skin and bacteria MUST be reviewed if you desire clean painless shaves. Exfoliation is a must at least 2 times per week if shaving.
I don't think either are strange if you and/or the wife want to.
Personally, DW says she doesn't mind if I shave or not but I absolutely can tell you it makes a difference when she goes down on me. I would rather her (and therefore me) to be enjoying the experience vs picking hairs out of her mouth. It's a pain for me and honestly I'm not sure I enjoy it really, but I certainly enjoy it when DW enjoys it!!
As far as shaving my legs, I feel like DW wouldn't like it. When I was on the swim team many many years ago most of the guys shaved their legs and wore speedos. Both were a large "NOPE!" from me. I was fast enough that I didn't need to "shave" off a few seconds by shaving legs or wearing tight shorts. I didn't care if I was the only guy lined up in big puffy swim trunks and hairy legs. I never lost nor won by milliseconds. However, I did start doing the buzz cut for my hair when we moved to multiple laps because when we had to dive, twist, and turn the hair would get in my face making it challenging sometimes. But that's me and that was ages ago.