Just Married, Unable to get it to work...

Erectile disfunction, premature ejaculation, delayed orgasm, etc.
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Re: Just Married, Unable to get it to work...

Postby goldandglitter390 » Thu Sep 22, 2016 10:14 pm

Sorry for the long/delayed reply everyone I've been changing all my passwords and couldn't login!

Little UPDATE:

We have figured out everything... well... at least the basics of getting it to work!

After all of your encouragement/wisdom, we both realized that we had fallen into the trap of expecting it to work perfectly and then when it didn't getting all bummed out. Many times I feel in the Christian circle that we talk so much about it, that we expect to be pro's the first night.. sex within marriage is a dance, not something you will catch onto right away.

In all honestly, once we relaxed and realized there were other ways we could help each other experience pleasure.. we started peeling back the layers like an onion... shortly a month after we were both able to O, a month after that performance anxiety is gone, and it works..

It's honestly amazing to see God work, and to see how he has opened up new ways , slower than I would have thought, but in his perfect timing :)

Thank you guys all again for your support... I can't wait till one day I can help others just like you helped me :).

Also, mixing essential oils is fun... come to find, men love Sandalwood :).

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Re: Just Married, Unable to get it to work...

Postby Romantic Husband » Fri Sep 23, 2016 6:06 am

That's wonderful news. I'm happy for both of you. I would also like to add that we've been married 38 years, and the learning (and the fun) never ends.
Matthew 19:26 - With God all things are possible.
Philippians 4:13 - I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.

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Re: Just Married, Unable to get it to work...

Postby Mr Adam » Wed Apr 26, 2017 11:42 pm

Happy for you guys! thank you for the update!

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