Need Advice- sleeve for ED

Erectile disfunction, premature ejaculation, delayed orgasm, etc.
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Need Advice- sleeve for ED

Postby Grey Hornet » Mon May 29, 2017 7:31 am

Due to cancer and surgeries, I am effectively impotent. Can manage some firmness at the base, but that's it. So, looking for recommendations for a sleeve to use for PIV. Don't want a 'monster' size like some you see advertised, just something to please DW and allow me to have the motions.
Any advice / recommendations / experience welcome.
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Re: Need Advice- sleeve for ED

Postby SeekingChange » Mon May 29, 2017 1:33 pm

I am, by far, not the most experienced in this area to advise too much, but a sleeve is a toy we have experimented with. My biggest concern when reading your situation was how well it would stay on a flaccid penis. When I did a little search to make sure what we have is actually considered a "sleeve" I saw they have some that have a ring that would go around the scrotum and would secure it on. That seems to be the answer to my concern.

Here is one piece of advice from a wife's perspective,, go with a material that is softest and flexible. It feels more real versus the harder plastics, rubbers, etc. The more real it feels, the more comfortable, therefore pleasurable, it is, IMO.
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Re: Need Advice- sleeve for ED

Postby Grey Hornet » Wed May 31, 2017 2:27 am

Thank you for the replies. Regarding concern about something working on a flaccid penis, I do get firm at the base, for about 3". So there is something for a sleeve to work from. Maybe that will help clear up the situation.
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Re: Need Advice- sleeve for ED

Postby SeekingChange » Wed May 31, 2017 6:37 am

Experiment. I personally think the fact you are willing to do this, is great. A sleeve would be much more preferable to me than using some other method, like a dildo, fingers, etc. to receive sexual pleasure on a regular basis. I can't say all wives are like me, but there is really something to feeling my husband's body on me, with the weight, the movement, and being able to hold and touch him simultaneously.
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