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Female PE

Postby yard1 » Wed Dec 05, 2012 12:18 pm

Many men suffer from PE. I have read much about womens' sexual response here, lack of ability to O to multiple Os, but I don't think I have ever read about females having orgams super quick into sex. So I wonder, you ladies, how long does it take you to O? How quickly can you O? Does it ever get in the way of prolonged enjoyment?
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Re: Female PE

Postby blushingwife » Wed Dec 05, 2012 12:26 pm

I have heard of women Oing in one minute or less.

I am a 10-30 min woman. Sometimes longer.

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Re: Female PE

Postby JDFbride » Wed Dec 05, 2012 12:31 pm

I think because of the nature of woman's longer response (generally) and their (typically) short refractory period, a woman who reaches orgasm quickly would usually just be considered orgasmic.

Now, I am sure there are cases of women who bust the norm and are a quick one and done....and I would imagine they would feel much like men who have PE, but for the vast majority of women, it just isn't relevant.

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Re: Female PE

Postby JDFbride » Wed Dec 05, 2012 12:38 pm

It is hard for me to put a time on how long my O takes, because it is hard to define when I'm starting to get excited. I have trained myself to be thinking about sex much of the time, even if it is just in the back of my mind. We typically talk for a while before we 'start' but my arousal is in different stages, depending on the day. Once I hit the plateau, then I am pretty regular 10-15 minutes to completion....faster after the first because I don't go all the way down usually. However, even that has variables because of hormones and how often we're having sex...woman's orgasm is complex, more in the mind than the man's (again GENERALLY)

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Re: Female PE

Postby mr. emu » Wed Dec 05, 2012 12:49 pm

It doesn't seem like this is an issue in your marriage ... wondering why you're asking here ... any insights from your DW?

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Re: Female PE

Postby alee » Wed Dec 05, 2012 2:27 pm

As a rule, DW has her first O in about 20 seconds. The next one in 15-20 seconds beyond the first. The third approx. 45 seconds after no. 2.

Its not always been this way, but DW is thinking about sex more these days than in the past.
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Re: Female PE

Postby thisbejoe7 » Wed Dec 05, 2012 2:36 pm

On rare occasions my DW has had an O very quickly. Once (with enough arousal and foreplay) she was able to O immediately upon penetration, so perhaps you could say that was merely "seconds" before an O, unless you want to count all the foreplay.

I have noticed that my wife is capable of being quick on the trigger when her mind is in the right state and if she has enough arousal which is usually linked to the quality of foreplay. Typically she will O from OS in under 2 minutes.

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Re: Female PE

Postby melinda » Wed Dec 05, 2012 2:46 pm

From zero arousal to O in about 3-5 minutes. Sometimes 1-2 minutes. I have multiples easily. I'd trade ease and quickness for having actual pleasurable orgasms.

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Re: Female PE

Postby Mark 9:24 » Wed Dec 05, 2012 3:19 pm

My DW usually takes 1-2 min for her first orgasm. She rarely takes as long as 5 minutes, but she is multi-orgasmic and they have always been easy for her.
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Re: Female PE

Postby oncedust » Wed Dec 05, 2012 11:31 pm

I've been married to my wife for 10 years, and I'm still waiting for the first one.

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Re: Female PE

Postby shashtzohx DFC » Thu Dec 06, 2012 4:15 am

weepingwillow wrote:It takes me 5-10 minutes on average I'd say. Sometimes a little longer or shorter. If I'm on my own they can be extremely fast, but those kind don't feel nearly as nice.


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Alone I can go off in like 2 minutes sometimes. But longer is nicer. And with my husband I am always the one to prematurely orgasm. lol
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Re: Female PE

Postby littledinobug » Thu Dec 06, 2012 4:48 am

I wouldn't call a woman who orgasms "Premature" Because face it, women can O and still keep going sexually, whereas a man once he pops, generally speaking, he's done for a certain amount of time.

A woman who O's early in the encounter leaves herself open for more O's during the encounter...therefore getting more bang for her buck so to speak hardyhar har
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Re: Female PE

Postby flyfisherwoman » Tue Jun 11, 2013 7:42 pm

With MS, or direct clitoral stimulation during PIV, it's less than a minute for me. However, I would not consider myself multi-orgasmic. Has it happened? Yes. Is it common? No.
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Re: Female PE

Postby C_Brown » Tue Jun 11, 2013 8:09 pm

Lots of variables with my DW. Sometimes being tired makes it hard to get her to O, sometimes being just a bit tired helps her relax and get to O faster. Sometimes she is horny and reaches O quickly, sometimes it take 10-15 minutes just to get her to the point of feeling her desire wake up.
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Re: Female PE

Postby George B. » Fri Jun 14, 2013 1:01 am

for us, my DW is a one-orgasm kind of gal, so we actually have to be careful when we're having sex, especially if it's been a while since the last time she had an orgasm, that she doesn't reach orgasm too early, since once she has one, it's over for her. She hates it when it happens too early, but we've learned good communication so it doesn't happen. When she's highly aroused, orgasm can happen within a minute or two.
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Re: Female PE

Postby Patti » Sat Mar 14, 2015 9:36 am

I am keenly aware that many women struggle with attaining orgasm. However, premature climax is not a consideration for us. My DH considers my rapid orgasm as positive feedback on his duty as a lover and husband. Within a minutes of foreplay, followed by intercourse, I generally experience successive orgasms that we feel exemplify a mutual, self giving of grace.
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Re: Female PE

Postby Romantic Husband » Sat Mar 14, 2015 11:38 am

For my DW it's usually 20 - 30 minutes or so. A long wait for her, but she's pretty consistent.
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