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Re: Ladies: Do you find men's nipples attractive?

Postby IWKT » Sun Dec 15, 2013 9:18 pm

I'm going to come out of lurkdum and admit that I do find men's nipples sexy!! A man's chest is very much a turn on for me! I'm incredibly visual. I've often felt like some kind of dream because of this.

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Postby pnbb » Mon Dec 16, 2013 3:55 am

Nipples? No. Pecs? Yes....
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Re: Ladies: Do you find men's nipples attractive?

Postby Leah » Mon Dec 16, 2013 7:05 am

My husband is very handsome and fit. I like looking at him. He is an athlete, so I see him shirtless quite a bit. He looks good everywhere, and he likes being touched.
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Re: Ladies: Do you find men's nipples attractive?

Postby seeker12 » Mon Dec 16, 2013 10:42 am

Answering for my DW, she would say no. As a boy growing up, I went shirtless a lot in the summer, especially if I was doing physical labor. My DW has 2 brothers who did the same. My DW never had a problem with lust in these situations...maybe because she is not visual andor perhaps it was our culture growing up.

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Postby Katiebear000 » Mon Dec 16, 2013 3:03 pm

My husband was raised with single dad (mom passed away when he was young, his dad never remarried) and brothers, so he has always been pretty casual about walking around in whatever state of dress he feels like. I sure am not complaining. He's very athletic and muscular and very very attractive. Don't know about nipples specifically but oh my gosh his chest is so big. I saw him bench press once and he had what looked like a lot of weight on that bar. :P

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Postby ledgemoor » Sun Dec 22, 2013 8:46 pm

Thanks for the input everyone.

A followup question: If you find your husbands nipples attractive, do you also find his penis attractive, and vice versa?
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Postby poetess » Mon Dec 23, 2013 12:00 pm

Nipples, not particularly. Man parts, definitely.
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Postby ophelia » Tue Dec 24, 2013 12:38 pm

Late to the party but since when has that stopped me? :wink:
I kinda like dh's nipples. The fact that he hates them being touched I think makes me want to do it more.
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Postby Katiebear000 » Sat Dec 28, 2013 11:45 am

Weirdly, this thread has made me think about his nipples more. He caught me staring at his shirtless chest yesterday and said usually he was the one whose eyes get glued on that latitude, not me.

Then he smirked and said he could do something I couldn't, and did this weird flex thing that made his pec muscles jiggle and demanded I try. I think my darling husband might have been psychologically frozen at the age of 14 or 15 or something.

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Postby Stumoo » Sun Jan 26, 2014 5:43 pm

Katiebear000 wrote:Then he smirked and said he could do something I couldn't, and did this weird flex thing that made his pec muscles jiggle and demanded I try. I think my darling husband might have been psychologically frozen at the age of 14 or 15 or something.


Haha, sometimes when my fiancée rests her head on my chest I do the same - I can bump her head off my chest (and I don't exactly have the most amazing pecs, I'm just reasonably fit and strong). She then tells me to stop showing off, but I know she likes it really! That she knows I'm in good shape enhances her anticipation of our marriage :D

As an aside, we were having a discussion with another engaged couple who have a similar age gap (I'm 3 and a half years older than FW) and I mentioned that I'd read the most successful marriages, statistically, are those where the man is about 4 years older. I suggested this is because men have a developmental delay; FW and I therefore have similar mental and emotional maturity levels! Nobody disagreed with this theory :lol:

I believe it's a good thing a small part of us hangs on to that teenage 'hurr-hurr' humour :P

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Re: Ladies: Do you find men's nipples attractive?

Postby pnbb » Sun Jan 26, 2014 6:49 pm

ledgemoor wrote:An followup question: If you find your husbands nipples attractive, do you also find his penis attractive, and vice versa?


I enjoy DH's pecs more than his nipples, probably not that much more though. I DEFINITELY find his penis attractive! I'll just stop there before I get in trouble on this forum! :P
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Re: Ladies: Do you find men's nipples attractive?

Postby OldMarriedLady » Sun Jan 26, 2014 7:07 pm

Stumoo wrote: I believe it's a good thing a small part of us hangs on to that teenage 'hurr-hurr' humour :P

:lol: That's a great way to describe it! DH and I definitely still have a lot of the "hurr-hurr" going on between us (well, I probably do more than him :oops: ).
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Postby Mrs Weller » Mon Feb 24, 2014 7:44 am

No they are not particularly sexy to look at but I find my DH's highly amusing to play with.
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Re: Ladies: Do you find men's nipples attractive?

Postby cbmike » Mon Aug 31, 2015 8:31 am

DW made a comment recently related to this, so I'm putting it here for now.

DW commented that it was frustrating that there aren't really any other words for pecs. She doesn't hate the word or anything, she just feels like its connotation is decidedly nonsexual. She feels that there are sexual and nonsexual terms for breasts, but if she wants to refer to pecs in sexual way she doesn't feel like she has any options. I thought it was an interesting perspective.
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Re: Ladies: Do you find men's nipples attractive?

Postby SeekingChange » Mon Aug 31, 2015 8:36 am

"Man boobs" don't work? :wink: :lol:
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Re: Ladies: Do you find men's nipples attractive?

Postby StrawberryBlonde » Mon Aug 31, 2015 10:36 am

moobs, man-breasts, bumpers, headlamps, boy-knockers, man-tits, wobblies, bazookas, moobies, chesticles, tipples, mannary glands, love lumps...

No, I'm not that creative. Copied from a website. This list reminded me that years ago we called them chesticles. I'd forgotten about that. And while they aren't particularly attractive to me visually, I have a hard time keeping my hands off them while ML.

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Re: Ladies: Do you find men's nipples attractive?

Postby cbmike » Mon Aug 31, 2015 10:56 am

The problem is that most of those tend to imply that one is overweight, at least to me. DW actually suggested gender-neutral use of the word "tits" because of the eroticism she perceives the word to have. I'm not sure how I feel about it, but I didn't object.
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Re: Ladies: Do you find men's nipples attractive?

Postby OldMarriedLady » Mon Aug 31, 2015 12:15 pm

Could she just call them sexy pecs? Or sexy chest muscles?

Usually the word pecs is associated with an attractive or "hot" guy, so I think it could be sexual.
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Re: Ladies: Do you find men's nipples attractive?

Postby cbmike » Tue Sep 01, 2015 6:30 am

I think chest tends to be what she uses, that or she just says "you're sexy" and touches wherever she likes. I think she was looking for something that may be a little crass. It isn't as though this is something that is consistently on her mind, though; these sorts of semantic discussions are usually more my bag than hers, which is why I thought it was intriguing that she even mentioned it in the first place.
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Re: Ladies: Do you find men's nipples attractive?

Postby Kilarin » Wed Sep 02, 2015 5:25 am

This is YOUR marriage bed, you can do whatever you want, including creating your own personalized language of love. So there is no reason whatsoever to wish longingly that the outside world had better terms, make up your own! Give them names!

My suggestion, famous twins from mythology. Romulus and Remus, or Castor and Pollux. :) But its your marriage bed, make up what works for the two of YOU and don't worry whether the rest of the world is missing out on your cool new word...


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