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Postby houston » Mon Feb 02, 2015 8:50 am

Not sure where to put this.
When I was about 19 and living at home, I MB'd. Not sure if parents knew, they never said anything but may have thought so. Any way I was taking a shower and my dad came in the bathroom (not unusual as only had one bathroom) and pulled the shower curtain back, looked in, said nothing and left. Was he trying to catch me MBing or checking my privates out (he had not seen me naked in many years)? This has bothered me for a long time as sex was not discussed at all. Comments.

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Postby jokerman » Mon Feb 02, 2015 8:57 am

Take him to a soccer field, point out the white lines, and explain the concept of "boundaries." Because he obviously doesn't have any.

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Postby convicted » Mon Feb 02, 2015 9:07 am

I'd ask dad.



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Postby houston » Mon Feb 02, 2015 9:14 am

He is no longer around, but out of curiosity, I still think about it .

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Postby convicted » Mon Feb 02, 2015 9:19 am

hmm, is your mom available?
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Postby SquarePants » Mon Feb 02, 2015 9:22 am

Is there any chance that he thought your mom was in the shower instead of you? Are you male or female?

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Postby houston » Mon Feb 02, 2015 9:34 am

He knew who was in shower. Mom is gone too. Male.

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Postby SeekingChange » Mon Feb 02, 2015 10:31 am

He could have been trying to "catch" you. From what you shared, and filtering it through how I am as a parent, I wouldn't think that it was for "sexually inappropriate" purposes. Yes, he didn't handle it properly, but when my boys have been in the bathroom way longer than necessary or late in the night, my instinct is to rattle some doors or send my husband marching in there to make sure they aren't doing anything they shouldn't be. :D (I'm not concerned with the MB'ing as much as if they are looking at something they shouldn't be on their mobile devices, even though they have filters.)
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