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One week to go!!

Postby TheTigress » Sat Jun 28, 2014 6:36 pm

I can't believe it! One week from right now I will be a married woman! So exciting and a little nervous to! I've done a lot of reading on this site and some books. FH and I have asked our questions and have our expectations out there. Just wondering if you all have some advice for two virgins? What should I pack for the honeymoon? I have vagisil, lube, cranberry pills, and condoms. Am I missing anything? I just can't believe we only have to wait 7 days! I feel like I've prepared as much as I can but I don't know what I don't know. Lol
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Re: One week to go!!

Postby Stumoo » Sat Jun 28, 2014 10:11 pm

A towel that you don't mind washing frequently ;-)

Good luck and God Bless!

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Re: One week to go!!

Postby CandC320 » Sun Jun 29, 2014 1:47 pm

A couple of CDs with romantic music can't hurt... :wink:

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Re: One week to go!!

Postby alegria_joy » Sun Jun 29, 2014 7:13 pm

Books to read out loud to each other and board/card/dice games to play, because you can't be actually making love 100% of the time...we played naked word games (hangman-type word games) and when one person gained a point on the other, the person who gained the point had to kiss the one who lost the point. And you could never kiss in the same place twice. It was a hilarious and awesome way to get to know each other in broad daylight (in our cabin).

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Re: One week to go!!

Postby Bear » Mon Jun 30, 2014 5:38 am

What to bring:
A great attitude (which you've demonstrated in all your posts...).

A sense of humor.

A dollop of grace.
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Re: One week to go!!

Postby TheTigress » Mon Jun 30, 2014 3:23 pm

Great suggestions!!! Thanks everyone! I especially like the game ideas. I've read about some online game in some
other threads but I don't remember what it was called anybody know what I am talking about??
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Re: One week to go!!

Postby George B. » Mon Jun 30, 2014 7:14 pm

Beauty4Ashes10 wrote:Great suggestions!!! Thanks everyone! I especially like the game ideas. I've read about some online game in some
other threads but I don't remember what it was called anybody know what I am talking about??


our favorite one is called Bliss. It was designed and developed by a Christian software developer. It's great because you can set it to start out and stay relatively tame or crank it right up to intense lovemaking, according to mood and desire. It's a very well designed game.
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Re: One week to go!!

Postby TheTigress » Wed Jul 02, 2014 5:55 am

That's the one I was thinking of thanks!! I think I might try to find some dice as well. :D 3 days to go! I can't believe this is finally right around the corner!! :D
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Re: One week to go!!

Postby dc9 » Tue Jul 08, 2014 8:16 am

I "made" a game for me and my wife.

You need two dice (we have one blue for me, and one red for DW), and a timer (if you want). You play naked. You decide before you play how long time each "action/connection" is supposed to be (we use 2 minutes), and how many rounds each "stage" will have (we use 6 rounds).

The numbers on the dice indicate bodyparts:
1: Backside (back, butt, legs)
2: Front (except breasts and genitals)
3: Hands
4: Mouth
5: Breasts (chest)
6: Genitals

Then you throw the dice and see which part of your body that shall connect with what part of your spouse for the time you have agreed on beforehand.
For example: DH throw and get blue 4 and red 2. That means the DH shall kiss, lick or whatever he like to do with his mouth on DW's front side for 2 minutes. When the time is up, it's DW's turn to throw, and she get blue 4 and red 4, which is mouth to mouth=kissing for 2 minutes. And so on.

To make it gradually build arousal and the actions more and more intimate, only 1-4 is allowed for the first 6 rounds, then only 2-5 for 6 rounds and at last only 3-6. For the first 6 rounds of 3-6, two 6s are not allowed, and then (if you ever get that far ;-)) everything is allowed for unlimited time. At this stage the only number you want is two 6s anyway, so you can probably just skip throwing the dice and get right to it!

If you get a "prohibited" number on a dice, you have to throw again until you get "legal" numbers.

We find this very exciting and arousing.


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