Intimacy After Long Distance

What's supposed to happen on the wedding night? Will it hurt? What if I'm not a virgin? ...
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Re: Intimacy After Long Distance

Postby SLS » Wed Jul 22, 2015 5:20 am

Well I can definitely say that as the wedding approached both our desires picked up. We thought about it a lot. :D

That said I want to encourage you not to put too much emphasis on the first few weeks of married sex. The first few weeks of sex are fun and wonderful (there is nothing like undressing your new wife for the first time :D ) but they are also the clumsiest. There is nothing wrong with that, it is a period to learn how to make love and please each other. Don't be discouraged if it doesn't feel as passionate as you both imagined immediately. Mrs. SLS and I will say that our most passionate session of love making wasn't during the first few weeks. One of the best parts about sex in marriage is that if you commit yourselves to studying each other and practicing love making it just gets better and better. :D


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