tjw wrote:A few times she has made comments based on a man's looks. Only one has been a "real life" man, I mean, of course, the other men are indeed living people but they are from TV or the music industry, and not people she actually knows.
I am "visual" in the fact that I am very observant and perceptive. I notice little changes people make, like haircuts, or style changes. I notice body language and how other's interact with those around them. I am just as likely to "observe" and comment about a man's appearance as I am on a woman's. I can say to my husband, "That is an attractive man." and it has no reflection on a "desire" for that man, or on any further thoughts, because the thoughts stop with the observation, I have no lingering thoughts or any "recalls" that pop up later. I can as easily say, "That's a beautiful woman." ...still, no reflection of a "desire" for that woman.