OldBear wrote:Do you compliment her on her beauty (outside and inside) and how she dresses and how her hand in your hand thrills you? Do you romance her?
All the time! As I held her hand today I remarked at how soft her hand felt in mine. As we were dressing for church this morning she asked how her dress looked and I told her she made the dress look great. (She did look great as she has recently lost 20lbs in prep for a European trip, but not for me) I always bring her flowers for no reason, just because and she is grateful and shows if physically but not sexually (great big hug and kiss). My dad taught me that sexual fulfillment starts in the kitchen and I have always practiced that as well. She actually told me once that she felt I didn't think she did a good enough job of cleaning as the reason why I helped around the house.
OldBear wrote:The elusive O for a DW challenges many a marriage bed.
I'm sure but it is really is going to be elusive if DW doesn't care of have a desire to achieve the elusive O. From what I understand no matter what I do she will not O unless she wants to.