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Re: How can I best be the "High Drive" spouse I can be?

Posted: Mon Jun 27, 2016 3:45 pm
by Unfulfilled
49,

I know how you feel. Literally outside of purely accidental contact/touch, or when we had sex that she must initiate, DW only touched me 4 times in two weeks. And one of those times was when we were at a funeral for a family member of mine so she grabbed my hand.

4 times in two weeks!

And yes my DW knows my love language is touch. Many arguments over this very topic have courts so she is absolutely clear about how it is massively important to me. And then get nothing/crumbs of touches at best.

I go through those bad days. And the only way I have been able to deal with them is replacement. That is I try to do other things to focus my attention on so that I don't just sit and dwell and cry in my beer. Call it distraction and prayer. But it is the only thing I've found that works.