Having trouble getting back to our routine

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Made4N
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Having trouble getting back to our routine

Postby Made4N » Mon Nov 27, 2017 2:44 pm

Our second child is now 15 months old and breast feeding stopped about 4 months ago. We are having trouble getting back to our norm. My wife had have problems with sensitivity during sex. Also she had problems with her breast still being really sensitive. After our first we were back in our routine and she was feeling better at this point but not this time. We did have two miscarriages before the success of our number two. The other thing that we are still working through is her cycle being very sporadic and long (over 30 days). In the past she was like clockwork 28-30 days.

Anything we can do to help get things back to the norm?

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Re: Having trouble getting back to our routine

Postby love2 » Mon Nov 27, 2017 3:11 pm

She needs to talk to her doctor about these things. If she is not comfortable with her current doctor she needs to get one she is comfortable with?

How was labor and delivery? How bad did she tear? Did she have any complications?

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Re: Having trouble getting back to our routine

Postby Made4N » Mon Nov 27, 2017 4:16 pm

She did have to be induced and because of that it was a very fast delivery. The baby was a week late. Our first was also a week late but she went into labor the night before the scheduled induction. She did have an Episiotomy for both births.

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Re: Having trouble getting back to our routine

Postby love2 » Mon Nov 27, 2017 4:44 pm

Episiotomies can cause scar tissue that makes penetration painful also medication might be needed to help with her hormones. I would definitely see a doctor.

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Re: Having trouble getting back to our routine

Postby Made4N » Mon Nov 27, 2017 4:55 pm

Thanks for the advice. I will talk with her about this later.


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