Gillian wrote:One last thing that I haven’t told anyone on this site and I’m going to start crying while I write this; Friday night was the first time since my husband and I have been married that he orgasmed inside of me (hope that’s not TMI). This is one of the reasons I have felt like a failure at sex and like I couldn’t please my husband. This wouldn’t have happened without the awesome input and information on this site, thank you all so much, you have no idea how much that meant to me and how much it’s helped my self-esteem and confidence. I felt like a complete failure before Friday night. That probably sounds dumb but that was important to me.
You know what? I've been married over twenty years. Even now, there are times when my husband having an orgasm inside me makes me feel so close and connected to him that it brings me to tears. They are tears of rejoicing and unity.