Over Sixty Sex-How Often?

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Postby Gemma » Sat Aug 23, 2008 10:15 am

lovinmyman wrote:LOL No, I'm glad they do, I just didn't want to find out the way I did!! :? :D :lol:


Did you explain to them what "TMI" was all about? :mrgreen:
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Postby lovinmyman » Sat Aug 23, 2008 12:54 pm

Gemma wrote:
lovinmyman wrote:LOL No, I'm glad they do, I just didn't want to find out the way I did!! :? :D :lol:


Did you explain to them what "TMI" was all about? :mrgreen:

I didn't, but I should have!! :? :roll: :|

Really, I am glad they still have a healthy sex life, it's just, you know, you don't really want to know ALL the details! :shock: Yes, TMI!!
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Postby Southern Belle » Sat Aug 23, 2008 1:13 pm

Sometimes you just get so excited about it, you want to share. It's so common for us to talk about, that it has spilled over a little a time or two. :mrgreen: Hopefully our kids aren't 'damaged' for life! ::lol
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Postby igor » Wed Aug 27, 2008 2:14 pm

scooter1 wrote:I was just wondering if there are other men in their sixties still able to have sex a couple times a week?

Yes - I am 68 and since our recent resumption of having sex, we have pretty much had sex every other day for the last few weeks. And there are times I know I could do it more than once a day.

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Postby Gemma » Wed Aug 27, 2008 3:19 pm

igor wrote: I am 68 and since our recent resumption of having sex, we have pretty much had sex every other day for the last few weeks. And there are times I know I could do it more than once a day.


Good for you guys, igor. Your story just blesses the socks off of me. :wave
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Postby lovinmyman » Wed Aug 27, 2008 8:34 pm

Gemma wrote:
igor wrote: I am 68 and since our recent resumption of having sex, we have pretty much had sex every other day for the last few weeks. And there are times I know I could do it more than once a day.


Good for you guys, igor. Your story just blesses the socks off of me. :wave

Same here! I can just hear the happiness in your posts! :D
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Postby horseman » Thu Aug 28, 2008 7:56 am

my D.W. and i ml at least 2 and somtimes 4 times aweek and we are 67& 65. once in a while "the periscope" doesn't want aways come up to the top so readily but with a little patince, things work their way in :wink:
our grown up kids know when the outside doors are locked, [to keep unannouced drop in vists] things may just be going on they don't want to find out about that would be :oops: for them and us. they do know we m.l. a lot :D

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Postby gloco » Sun Sep 07, 2008 8:53 pm

Last winter as soon as harvest was over and there was nothing calling DH out to work in the morning, we tried to ML every morning and every night. Right now we haven't ML for a week and neither of us know how to approach the come back. In our 40's and 50's he didn't seem to need that much, but now (in our 60's) its different. I don't really like it, but I go along when I can.
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Postby OldBear » Fri Sep 12, 2008 7:56 pm

We are approaching 60 and find our LMing more fulfilling (37 years of marriage with 3 chlidren and 7 grandkids) with each passing year. Sometimes we ML twice a week, but usually its weekly - no pattern - always at night after her evening bath. We cuddle, pray, and share terms of endearment (our favorite is, "I like you" which means more than just "I love you.") :P

With age, there's the occasional 'misfire' . . . one of us may not 'make it.' This happens infrequently. [Note: We both enjoy powerful O's, my DW in particular - very verbal!]

When we 'misfire' we laugh about it and chalk it up to my lack of youthful vigor or her distraction/tiredness. We then drift off to sleep with the verbal reassurance that next time we know we'll enjoy the experience ::luv .

I think this attitude removes the pressure of performance and the anxiety of non-performance. Whatever the case, we sure are enjoying this chapter of our lives!! ::luv2

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Postby igor » Sun Sep 14, 2008 7:37 am

Gemma wrote:Good for you guys, igor. Your story just blesses the socks off of me. :wave


DW said it is like a honeymoon but this time we know what we are doing :lol: Last week I even gave her oral which is a first! Today is our 46th anniversary - oh my - the anticipation ::luv2 ::xx

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Postby Gemma » Sun Sep 14, 2008 10:03 am

igor wrote:
Gemma wrote:Good for you guys, igor. Your story just blesses the socks off of me. :wave


DW said it is like a honeymoon but this time we know what we are doing :lol: Last week I even gave her oral which is a first! Today is our 46th anniversary - oh my - the anticipation ::luv2 ::xx


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Postby PlanetMongo » Fri Nov 28, 2008 2:17 am

igor wrote:
scooter1 wrote:I was just wondering if there are other men in their sixties still able to have sex a couple times a week?

Yes - I am 68 and since our recent resumption of having sex, we have pretty much had sex every other day for the last few weeks. And there are times I know I could do it more than once a day.


We are in our sixties/late fifties, and, yes, it can take a little longer, but lovemaking is better now that it ever has been. Ok his erection is probaly not the force it once was, and her sex drive has diminished after the menopause, but you can still get there quite often using a different approach. Ok if you dont reach the shattering conclusion, youve still been close and had a good time.

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Postby bibliophile » Thu Dec 11, 2008 8:32 pm

We're both 64, and for years we ML just about every night except during her "monthlies." But now we're both exhausted by our jobs, and I take anti-depressants, 2 kinds of blood-pressure medication, and a whole lot of other things. (17 prescription pills every morning, 6 every night.) And I'm diabetic. I just don't have the energy to ML more than about once every two weeks--although just before Thanksgiving we were able to do it on two successive nights. BTW: the problem is not "getting it up," but delayed ejaculation. DW simply wears out before I reach O. :(

So far, at least, I've not fallen asleep in the middle of LM!

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Postby PK Man » Sun Nov 01, 2009 7:02 am

I am 65 and still enjoy sexual activity. My erections aren't what I had when a younger guy. I am grateful for the new chemicals available (I am not sure about Viagra - too many side effects). I also take Testosterone therapy. If there are any guys out there with ED, you don't have to be "sidelined". My physician is a great help as well. :D
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Postby goodcalguy » Mon Apr 19, 2010 7:13 pm

I am in my 80s and still enjoy sexual activity with my wife of over 60 years. Takes more time and we are a little tired the next day My wife has orgasms while I ejaculate only about 1/3 of the time, but it is still enjoyable. Are there any other late 70s or 80+ couples out there?

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Re: Over Sixty Sex-How Often?

Postby Legolas » Tue Oct 04, 2011 5:25 pm

I just read through this chain now and I can't tell you how excited you all have made me...both literally and figuratively...I have had the odd fleeting thought about what's it going to be like 10, 15, 20 years from now (I have just turned 51 and DW is 50) and it was bothering me that we might have to stop this...so glad to see that there are more experienced folk around who are just "energetic" as we are...Thank you all for the encouragement...
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Postby firefly » Fri Nov 11, 2011 1:39 am

Legolas wrote:I just read through this chain now and I can't tell you how excited you all have made me...both literally and figuratively...I have had the odd fleeting thought about what's it going to be like 10, 15, 20 years from now (I have just turned 51 and DW is 50) and it was bothering me that we might have to stop this...so glad to see that there are more experienced folk around who are just "energetic" as we are...Thank you all for the encouragement...

Same here. We are both 52 and though I could do it every other day, I am tired when I come in from work and generally forego the desire for sleep. Longer than two days, and I get horny and my DW gets sexy texts all day. She says, "lets get this over with, so we can get back to normalcy". She is just kidding of course. She enjoys IC as much as I do. She uses a vibe most every time to "O", which is fine with me. PIV brings her to "O" also, so we usually both wind up having an orgasm. Thanks all you older folks, I am thrilled to read your stories and you give me lots to look forward to. 8) :mrgreen:
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Postby CandC320 » Tue Jan 07, 2014 11:14 am

We are in our early 70s and have been married over 50 years. We average 5 to 7 times a month. Thanking God for the "little blue pill". :wink:

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Postby seeker12 » Tue Jan 07, 2014 11:33 am

DW and I are almost 55 but I have notice a little slow down this past year. Most of our 30+ years of marriage we have averaged 3 times a month and now we are 2 times a month. I still could go 3 times a week but that is another story...

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