Over Sixty Sex-How Often?

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Over Sixty Sex-How Often?

Postby scooter1 » Thu May 15, 2008 5:37 pm

I just turned sixty and am noticing a slow down. I"m wondering if it isn't more age related rather than ED?
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Postby thebigfish » Thu May 15, 2008 5:50 pm

Right now it's 3 times a week, but I'm noticing a slow down in all areas. I'm only 55. I'll let you know in 5 years. :wink:
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Re: Over Sixty Sex-How Often?

Postby igor » Fri May 16, 2008 12:57 pm

scooter1 wrote:I just turned sixty and am noticing a slow down. I"m wondering if it isn't more age related rather than ED?


Do you have ED? My wife turned her switch off 4 years ago at age 61. I MB regularly - can't say that I've slowed down at age 67.

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Postby scooter1 » Fri May 16, 2008 2:17 pm

inconsistly yes, thats why I was wondering if it was more age related. I take Lavetra and that works. I was wondering if as we reach our sixties if it is common to go longer between needing sexual encounters? Lets say instead of twice a week to once every week or two? Maybe our frequency naturally slows down as we get older. Would be interested in others thoughts!

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Postby igor » Mon May 19, 2008 1:47 pm

I would imagine at some point, things are bound to slow down.

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Postby scooter1 » Mon May 19, 2008 1:53 pm

I was just wondering if there are other men in their sixties still able to have sex a couple times a week?

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Postby dwgriff » Mon May 19, 2008 10:07 pm

We are 71 and both of us are on anti depressants. At this point we have sex about once a week. We have had a good life of fine sex, not terribly creative, but lots of good sex.

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Postby mom210 » Tue May 20, 2008 5:16 am

Dh and I are in our late 40's and my mom and dad are in their late 60's ..both my parents are very high energy and active...according to the conversations my mom and I have had..she and dad are active about 3 times a week.

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Postby scooter1 » Tue May 20, 2008 8:19 am

Thanks mom210. That's nice to know. I will continue to pursue ED solutions!

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Postby Gemma » Tue May 20, 2008 10:18 am

scooter1 wrote: I was wondering if as we reach our sixties if it is common to go longer between needing sexual encounters? Lets say instead of twice a week to once every week or two? Maybe our frequency naturally slows down as we get older.


Can only speak for our situation. Dh is in his late 50's. His need for sexual encounters is high, like practically every day, sometimes twice a day. He is perfectly capable of skipping 1-3 days when necessary like now, when he's out of town on business and I'm home. However, when he returns home this evening the primary thought on his mind will be to have sex. Our last encounter was yesterday morning when he left.

Does it slow down with age? I dunno yet but I'm sure it varies greatly from person to person.
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Postby blondie » Fri May 23, 2008 2:42 am

My wife has just reached sixty but she has O through IC everytime. Do women awaken with age? However she doesn't like deep thrusting so much and likes to take more time before entry a kind of surface thing just in. I have a lot of fun getting it right. I'm not always as hard as I used to be but it doesn't seem to matter as that is not what she is particularly looking for. She seems to like a lot of messing about with it around that spot without necessarily deep penetration.
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Postby kupplekansas » Thu Jul 31, 2008 2:53 pm

We ML once or twice a week and are both happy with that frequency.

Been reading and lurking a while before joining. There a lot of code and abbreviations here, i.e. DW etc. Many I can't figure out - is there a list of codes?

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Postby willhelp » Thu Jul 31, 2008 3:00 pm

Welcome to TMB. Go to the top of the page and click on Abbreviations and acyronyms. All the info is there.

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Postby Lizi » Thu Jul 31, 2008 6:00 pm

Congratulations on your marriage.
37 years is a long time so it is only natural that you would miss your LW (late-wife) very much. May I suggest the following to you.

If when ML (making love) with your wife thoughts of you ML with your LW come to mind, immediately stop and focus on your wife.

May I also lovingly suggest you simply say 'wife' rather than 'new' wife.

You obviously loved LW but you are now in another relationship and the marriage bed is for two not three. Your wife deserves that.

Fond memories of your LW should be kept personal and memories of a sexual nature should be controlled for the benefit of your relatonship with your wife.

May the Lord bless you.

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Postby kupplekansas » Fri Aug 01, 2008 5:43 am

thanks.
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Postby Lizi » Fri Aug 01, 2008 11:16 am

My husband was a widower when we married.
May I add that it´s not a question of erasing someone from your mind as if they hadn´t existed but rather concentrating on the present relationship.

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Postby lovinmyman » Fri Aug 01, 2008 1:26 pm

My parents are in their late 70's and they ML once a week. (Don't ask me how I know this tidbit of information!! :shock: :roll: :? )
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Postby skyrider » Fri Aug 22, 2008 6:32 pm

I am now 67+, W is 65. I had notice a little more "work" to get an erection a couple of years ago. July of 07 I discovered that my W had been unfaithful. Had been too friendly for some time and promised that it would not happen again. Found that when I was out of town for two or three days she was having him take his motor home to a remote location and she would drive out to spend the night and have sex. That revelation really destroyed my "ability". We are doing quite well on putting it back together, I feel like I finally have my W back again. For us it is usually twice a week and about half of the time I take about 2 mg of Levitra (1/4 of a 10 mg tablet) and that works wonders.
Wife has trouble getting to the big O but makes it about once a week with a vibrator.

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Postby Southern Belle » Fri Aug 22, 2008 6:57 pm

lovinmyman wrote:My parents are in their late 70's and they ML once a week. (Don't ask me how I know this tidbit of information!! :shock: :roll: :? )


Are you running out of the room and gaggin yet? teeehhhhhhheeeeeehhh

LOL-where's the pukey smiley- Your parents do that :shock: Oh no!

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Postby lovinmyman » Sat Aug 23, 2008 6:34 am

Southern Belle wrote:
lovinmyman wrote:My parents are in their late 70's and they ML once a week. (Don't ask me how I know this tidbit of information!! :shock: :roll: :? )


Are you running out of the room and gaggin yet? teeehhhhhhheeeeeehhh

LOL No, I'm glad they do, I just didn't want to find out the way I did!! :? :D :lol:
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