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by Link+Zelda
Mon May 10, 2021 9:06 am
Forum: Oral Sex
Topic: Swallowing
Replies: 17
Views: 1411

Re: Swallowing

Benny,

If it makes you feel any better, I referenced fellatio to my wife when we'd lost our taste/smell from COVID and were still recovering from it. She didn't go for it either! :lol:
by Link+Zelda
Sun May 09, 2021 10:03 pm
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 05/10/2021 - Jealousy from Others?
Replies: 8
Views: 287

05/10/2021 - Jealousy from Others?

Have you ever experienced some type of jealousy due to the opposite sex's interaction with your spouse? It could be from a past date, a dance, a kiss, etc. It doesn't even have to involve any reciprocated feelings--simply someone of the opposite sex liking, touching, or showing interesting in your ...
by Link+Zelda
Sun May 09, 2021 8:44 pm
Forum: On-Topic Chit-Chat
Topic: Who does more physical work?
Replies: 11
Views: 331

Re: Who does more physical work?

For us, it's the husband all the way. Our go-to position is entirely me doing the work, as she gets as comfortable as possible and just enjoys. Same goes for side-of-the bed, spooning, and missionary. Even in WOT, I'm probably putting forth equal or more effort. Does that mean it's inverted missiona...
by Link+Zelda
Sun May 09, 2021 4:53 pm
Forum: Orgasm & Sex Drive
Topic: His vs. hers "O's".
Replies: 15
Views: 562

Re: His vs. hers "O's".

The conversation as it is proceeding is just fine. In my view, all of it relates to the OP. Thanks for your input. It is thought provoking and helpful. That's a good point. The method of stimulation used to achieve orgasm will often change the intensity of the O, and this is true for both sexes and...
by Link+Zelda
Sun May 09, 2021 8:05 am
Forum: Orgasm & Sex Drive
Topic: His vs. hers "O's".
Replies: 15
Views: 562

Re: His vs. hers

I guess I can throw our two cents of experience out there. Best way to sum up is that Zelda's O's appear to be roughly the same intensity as mine, but they certainly last longer--roughly 3x longer would be my guess. Her variability is certainly larger than mine, as she has experienced the "mini...
by Link+Zelda
Sat May 08, 2021 7:06 am
Forum: Orgasm & Sex Drive
Topic: His vs. hers "O's".
Replies: 15
Views: 562

Re: His vs. hers "O's".

@PaulB, in a concurrent post in this topic you said: My understanding is if you rank men's orgasms from 25 to 50, women on the same scale run from 1 to 100. Is there a source for the scale(s) that you quote? Or some type of research that gives the basis of the ranking? Paul has written about this o...
by Link+Zelda
Sat May 08, 2021 6:39 am
Forum: Intercourse (PIV) & Positions
Topic: For wives: thrusting after she has orgasmed?
Replies: 14
Views: 594

Re: For wives: thrusting after she has orgasmed?

I’ve wondered if I could last longer at full thrust speed if she would eventually get there. This is another important thing to consider--my wife's thrusting intensity preference often changes post O. However, she usually still doesn't want "full thrust speed", even if the preferred inten...
by Link+Zelda
Fri May 07, 2021 8:41 pm
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: On Love Languages
Replies: 9
Views: 260

Re: On Love Languages

Others have said much of what I could contribute, but I think there's one thing that hasn't been brought up. Does your husband watch porn, or did he do so in the past? If so, was this something he focused on? Fellatio is a relatively submissive act to give, and it is prominently featured in much por...
by Link+Zelda
Fri May 07, 2021 7:36 pm
Forum: Lack of Desire
Topic: Asexuality and Marriage
Replies: 5
Views: 255

Re: Asexuality and Marriage

So there's a lot to cover/go into here. And no, you didn't need to write a big/long post, because you've posted before and people can look at your previous posts. Perhaps the thing that stuck out to me the most was the following: She thinks she's asexual because nothing she's ever tried has worked a...
by Link+Zelda
Fri May 07, 2021 2:48 pm
Forum: Intercourse (PIV) & Positions
Topic: For wives: thrusting after she has orgasmed?
Replies: 14
Views: 594

Re: For wives: thrusting after she has orgasmed?

SC's description of herself is what I would classify as the "one and completely done" that I mentioned in my ETA. But SC is right that everyone is different and you should listen to your wife (though I understand that getting confirmation from outsiders is helpful). Honestly, one I figured...

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