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by Link+Zelda
Tue Aug 03, 2021 12:09 pm
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 07/28/2021 - Do you talk while naked prior to sex?
Replies: 11
Views: 487

Re: 07/28/2021 - Do you talk while naked prior to sex?

We have significant talks almost every time prior to engaging in coitus. I've mentioned it before, but she'll often do a "daily dump", where she talks about her day, the kids, etc and gets everything off her chest (except my hand 🤚). Doing this allows her to clear her mind, connect with me...
by Link+Zelda
Tue Aug 03, 2021 11:56 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 7/30/21 - besides the bed, what is your favorite place…
Replies: 15
Views: 738

Re: 7/30/21 - besides the bed, what is your favorite place…

It's been a long time (over 20% of our married life) since we've done it, but I think our favorite place that's not the bed would be in our living room, specifically in the recliner. Well, she's in the recliner, I'm not. :lol: This is what we liked. It was her favorite for a long time, but with the...
by Link+Zelda
Mon Aug 02, 2021 9:19 pm
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 08/03/21 - Which would you choose?
Replies: 12
Views: 295

Re: 08/03/21 - Which would you choose?

B for both of us. (We just discussed it.)

Reasoning: B is the largest time consumer of all of these (especially when it includes the kitchen!) Having B would get us much closer to "A" automatically.

C comes in second, but there's always frozen pizza on the hard days.
by Link+Zelda
Mon Aug 02, 2021 8:03 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 08/02/21 - Relationship Goals
Replies: 3
Views: 163

08/02/21 - Relationship Goals

Do you currently have any goals for your marital relationship?

Do you have ongoing goals, or is it something that's less frequent?

What are some of your past/present goals?
by Link+Zelda
Sun Aug 01, 2021 6:30 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: National Orgasm Day
Replies: 5
Views: 316

Re: National Orgasm Day

I mentioned it on last year's 07/31 QOTD thread. However, I'd forgotten about it until I saw your post.

We celebrated it unknowingly here. :lol:
by Link+Zelda
Thu Jul 29, 2021 9:20 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 07/29/2021 - What was your favorite subject?
Replies: 19
Views: 522

Re: 07/29/2021 - What was your favorite subject?

Prior to college, my favorite subject was math.

In college, I found that while I was extremely good at math compared to the general population, it was pretty average when compared to the elites. Some of the high-end math was pretty brutal, so I'd say my favorite subject in college was chemistry.
by Link+Zelda
Wed Jul 28, 2021 10:25 am
Forum: Activities & Items
Topic: One thing your spouse really wants to try
Replies: 3
Views: 267

Re: One thing your spouse really wants to try

Sex on a hotel balcony. I'm all for it (presuming we can manage to do it in a legal and safe way), but with four young kids and no family anywhere close to us, we're not likely to get an opportunity anytime soon. The last night we had together alone (not counting a hospitalized newborn) was our 10th...
by Link+Zelda
Wed Jul 28, 2021 9:53 am
Forum: Masturbation in Marriage
Topic: DW learning to use fingers after a vibrator
Replies: 2
Views: 205

Re: DW learning to use fingers after a vibrator

No answers from me, but I just wanted to say that I'll be closely following this thread. Your story is similar to ours except that it took over 12 years for us to start using a vibrator, as it never occurred to us to try that before then. FWIW, anytime Zelda tried using just fingers both by herself ...
by Link+Zelda
Tue Jul 27, 2021 12:26 pm
Forum: Okay, Bad Idea, or Sin?
Topic: Use of drawings and fictional characters for arousal
Replies: 13
Views: 354

Re: Use of drawings and fictional characters for arousal

@JD, It's just something that at my age, and my generation, I haven't been exposed to or am familiar with. From the visual standpoint, possibly. However, I'd disagree with the "haven't been exposed to" in a more general sense. For data supporting my claim, I point to the extreme popularit...
by Link+Zelda
Tue Jul 27, 2021 11:38 am
Forum: Okay, Bad Idea, or Sin?
Topic: Use of drawings and fictional characters for arousal
Replies: 13
Views: 354

Re: Use of drawings and fictional characters for arousal

My head is swimming..... Translation for people that don't understand what is going on: OP over the years used animated characters (essentially cartoons of Japanese origin) to get aroused and masturbate to...instead of using things more common like fantasies or real-life-people pornography. Some of...

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