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by SeekingChange
Tue May 11, 2021 2:16 pm
Forum: Intercourse (PIV) & Positions
Topic: Low Testosterone?
Replies: 10
Views: 535

Re: Low Testosterone?

I’m 50+ and this is definitely true in my case, unfortunately :( But it remains a mystery to me that I have consistent morning wood, but when fully awake it seems impossible to get hard without physical stimulation. :roll: Is it similar for other guys here on the boards? I realize I am not a guy, a...
by SeekingChange
Tue May 11, 2021 6:43 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 05/11/21- What part of these vows has been the most trying or challenging in your marriage?
Replies: 12
Views: 256

Re: 05/11/21- What part of these vows has been the most trying or challenging in your marriage?

Claymore wrote: Tue May 11, 2021 6:35 am You left one out - "to honor and obey." Honor is conditional and obedience is refused.
When I searched, that was not a common use in traditional wedding vows, I know my husband has never had them a part of traditional vows. But I see your point.
by SeekingChange
Tue May 11, 2021 5:39 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 05/11/21- What part of these vows has been the most trying or challenging in your marriage?
Replies: 12
Views: 256

Re: 05/11/21- What part of these vows has been the most trying or challenging in your marriage?

For me, #5. Didn't do very well at cherishing and wasn't being cherished, which made the idea of #6 difficult to deal with. Part of my testimony is wishing I could get out of the marriage.
by SeekingChange
Mon May 10, 2021 9:35 pm
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 05/11/21- What part of these vows has been the most trying or challenging in your marriage?
Replies: 12
Views: 256

05/11/21- What part of these vows has been the most trying or challenging in your marriage?

(1) To have and to hold from this day forward

(2) For better or for worse

(3) For richer or for poorer

(4) In sickness and in health

(5) To love and to cherish

(6) Till death do us part

And if you want to share, why has it been the most trying/challenging?
by SeekingChange
Mon May 10, 2021 7:49 pm
Forum: On-Topic Chit-Chat
Topic: Who does more physical work?
Replies: 11
Views: 331

Re: Who does more physical work?

Our go to position is WOT where I'm doing most of the work I guess although, he is trusting too. Has it always been this way? Is there a certain reason WOT is your go-to position....did it start as his preference or yours? I am really curious, because aren't you the lower drive? What gives you the ...
by SeekingChange
Mon May 10, 2021 7:35 am
Forum: Other Non-sexual Marriage Issues
Topic: Privacy
Replies: 5
Views: 171

Re: Privacy

I guess but would call it giving space rather than privacy. I could see that. I think in my mind, when I need "space" for something more personal, it feels more like "privacy". My desire for privacy is typically around bathroom rituals, I prefer it when naked, whether changing, ...
by SeekingChange
Mon May 10, 2021 7:10 am
Forum: Other Non-sexual Marriage Issues
Topic: Privacy
Replies: 5
Views: 171

Privacy

What role does privacy play in your marriage? (To be clear, privacy is different than secrecy.) Do one or both desire it? Does one desire it more than the other? Do you feel privacy is okay in a marriage? Or, even if it's "okay", have you or your spouse been offended by it or have had conf...
by SeekingChange
Mon May 10, 2021 3:03 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 05/10/2021 - Jealousy from Others?
Replies: 8
Views: 287

Re: 05/10/2021 - Jealousy from Others?

I faintly remember some jealousy in our pre-dating/dating years. I think uncertainty is a breeding ground for it in me. Once we were married, I dealt with a lot of other emotions with others attentions on him and his on others (often putting them first), but jealousy is not a word I would use to des...
by SeekingChange
Sun May 09, 2021 5:20 pm
Forum: The Theology of Sex
Topic: Original sin?
Replies: 23
Views: 553

Re: Original sin?

Where does this "Lilith" come from?
by SeekingChange
Sun May 09, 2021 1:04 pm
Forum: The Theology of Sex
Topic: Original sin?
Replies: 23
Views: 553

Re: Original sin?

Do any of you know where it originated from? Does it come from another religion?

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