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by SeekingChange
Mon Oct 18, 2021 10:32 am
Forum: Parenting Practice - babies & pre-school
Topic: How do/did you maintain sex, during children years?
Replies: 1
Views: 18

How do/did you maintain sex, during children years?

Whether you have young children (infant-11yrs) now, or you had them in the past, how well did you ride, sexually speaking, through that season? Do/did you consider yourself having a healthy sex life in that time? What are practical ways you maintained a sex life? Whether it's self-care, or with the ...
by SeekingChange
Mon Oct 18, 2021 7:32 am
Forum: Other Sexual Changes, Challenges Difficulties
Topic: Husband introduced me to toys/ now he's angry
Replies: 6
Views: 113

Re: Husband introduced me to toys/ now he's angry

What I see is potentially a man who's addicted to porn and could be suffering the negative effects from it, and then wants to cast blame. The site Your Brain on Porn, could help you understand how it rewires one's brain and that it can cause things like ED. There are many men who struggle and are as...
by SeekingChange
Mon Oct 18, 2021 7:23 am
Forum: On-Topic Chit-Chat
Topic: Considering divorce - my heart and mind are breaking
Replies: 4
Views: 175

Re: Considering divorce - my heart and mind are breaking

La Vita e Misterioso wrote: Sun Oct 17, 2021 9:42 am I hope Jobman had other goals to pursue and didn't pass away?
He left when TMB made changes a couple of years ago, and we haven't seen him since, but last I knew, he's alive and well.
by SeekingChange
Mon Oct 18, 2021 7:19 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 10/18/2021 - Favorite Villain Song
Replies: 8
Views: 82

Re: 10/18/2021 - Favorite Villain Song

For the life of me, I had a hard time thinking of any villain songs when I first saw this, after much thought, these are the songs I have actually caught myself singing at times.

I'm Mean, by Brutus in Popeye

Or

Little Girls, by Miss Hannigan in Annie
by SeekingChange
Fri Oct 15, 2021 4:48 pm
Forum: Other Non-sexual Marriage Issues
Topic: How does Person A 'deal' with Person B's prior sexual partners?
Replies: 20
Views: 486

Re: How does Person A 'deal' with Person B's prior sexual partners?

Virginity is different because you can't tell if someone walking down the street is a virgin. And I don't know of anyone who would have virginity as the _only_ criteria. It was one of many for me. In an earlier post you stated "it is reasonable for a potential partner not being a virgin to be ...
by SeekingChange
Fri Oct 15, 2021 9:15 am
Forum: Body Parts & Body Care
Topic: Men - What do you bring out to pee? :P
Replies: 17
Views: 779

Re: Men - What do you bring out to pee? :P

Burban wrote: Fri Oct 15, 2021 9:07 am Gotta get a handle on that thing so the stream goes just where you want it. Even then, sometimes it’s hard to control.
As any mother of boys knows, when cleaning the floors and walls around the toilet..... and how did pee get up on the back of the toilet!?! :shock: 🤢 :lol:
by SeekingChange
Fri Oct 15, 2021 6:40 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 10/15/21 - What questions do you ask your spouse...
Replies: 6
Views: 315

Re: 10/15/21 - What questions do you ask your spouse...

I will sometimes ask, "How was your day?" and then I may ask more detailed questions about specific things. Being married to a talker, I find I rarely need to ask questions. Ready or not, it's all coming out. ;) :lol: He will occasionally ask me, "How do you think we are doing?" ...
by SeekingChange
Fri Oct 15, 2021 6:32 am
Forum: On-Topic Chit-Chat
Topic: Things girls do that are unintentionally sexy?
Replies: 15
Views: 486

Re: Things girls do that are unintentionally sexy?

footnassman wrote: Fri Oct 15, 2021 3:55 amfeet up on the dash board...(yes, we know the danger...dont judge me/us)
::rotfl ::rotfl ::rotfl
Some things are worth the risk!!!!

A habit I won't give up either, especially on longer trips.

Hey, it's dangerous and risky just getting in the car, and yet we all do it. ;)
by SeekingChange
Thu Oct 14, 2021 9:08 pm
Forum: Activities & Items
Topic: Introducing toys?
Replies: 7
Views: 216

Re: Introducing toys?

First, I would guess your wife has some specific type of toys in mind. Have you asked her what she's interested in? To not know what you're specifically interested in, is like taking a shot in the dark, with recommendations. ( This is posted after just thinking through how many toys we have and the ...
by SeekingChange
Thu Oct 14, 2021 9:00 pm
Forum: Activities & Items
Topic: Current Collection of Toys
Replies: 6
Views: 172

Re: Current Collection of Toys

If you had to guess, how much have you spent on toys in your lifetime? My guess is probably too much to count or too hard to come up with a number for most. I can't even guess because I don't do the shopping, so my answer is similar to yours. .... (Just asked my husband, over our whole marriage, he...

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