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by SeekingChange
Mon Sep 20, 2021 7:39 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 09/20/2021 - Attractiveness with Aging?
Replies: 16
Views: 254

Re: 09/20/2021 - Attractiveness with Aging?

I have made a similar statement, typically it was around gray hair and even lines/wrinkles. Those things often make a man look more distinguished, aka "a silver fox", while in women, it's frowned upon and they are considered just looking old and "letting themselves go." The belie...
by SeekingChange
Sun Sep 19, 2021 6:20 pm
Forum: Lack of Desire
Topic: Stimulant Medication for ADHD
Replies: 3
Views: 182

Re: Stimulant Medication for ADHD

We need to figure out where to go to get evaluated that won't cost an arm and a leg. But he is dead set on no meds... I don't like the idea of relying on them either, but I'm more open minded about trying them if they work. That being said, what are some things that your husband has found successfu...
by SeekingChange
Fri Sep 17, 2021 12:46 pm
Forum: Introduce Yourself!
Topic: Pearl on the scene
Replies: 3
Views: 94

Re: Pearl on the scene

Glad you joined and introduced yourself! It sounds like you will be a great addition to the community.
by SeekingChange
Fri Sep 17, 2021 7:14 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 9/17/21 - Eliminating sex, what's 1-2 ways you enjoy connecting emotionally with your spouse?
Replies: 17
Views: 389

Re: 9/17/21 - Eliminating sex, what's 1-2 ways you enjoy connecting emotionally with your spouse?

Living life together is the main way for me, so some of the most enjoyable are trips we've taken together, and laughing together, at first I was going to say "at our grandkids", but really it's when we find anything humorous....do you know how many times we've watched this Ryan and Will Ti...
by SeekingChange
Fri Sep 17, 2021 6:36 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: sexual vows? (think promises or commitment)
Replies: 55
Views: 2761

Re: sexual vows? (think promises or commitment)

Guideline 8. Stop the rabbits! Bunny trails happen when a discussion veers away from the original point of the thread. If a bunny trail is occurring, please do not contribute to it! If you want to keep a particular trail going, start a thread that deals with it directly instead of continuing to hij...
by SeekingChange
Thu Sep 16, 2021 11:14 am
Forum: Grown Children
Topic: Sharing TMB site with adult children
Replies: 4
Views: 95

Re: Sharing TMB site with adult children

No, I haven't shared it. If they came upon it on their own, that would be a different thing. But for what I am personally called to on here, I believe it would hinder it.
by SeekingChange
Thu Sep 16, 2021 10:00 am
Forum: Introduce Yourself!
Topic: SeeWhereItGoes
Replies: 4
Views: 86

Re: SeeWhereItGoes

Glad you are here! I hope TMB will be a tool to help grow and strengthen you and your marriage. May you continue to find hope, encouragement, and even conviction when it is needed.

Blessings to you!
by SeekingChange
Thu Sep 16, 2021 9:55 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 09/16/2021 - Have you noticed "sexual seasons" in your marriage?
Replies: 6
Views: 271

Re: 09/16/2021 - Have you noticed "sexual seasons" in your marriage?

I definitely have noticed "seasons".... they can be as short as a few days, to years at at a time. For me, I think it all comes down to an emotional bank, or emotional availability...which, mental, physical, and spiritual all have a factor in it as well. The more that is required out of me...
by SeekingChange
Thu Sep 16, 2021 7:04 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: Is sex a priority over all?
Replies: 18
Views: 533

Re: Is sex a priority over all?

I would say " love " is the ball, not just in marriage but in the whole of the gospel and a Christian's or The Church's life, purpose, and mission. Sex would just be a manifestation of that within a marriage. But non-sexual aspects could be a manifestation of it as well. To steal from Apos...
by SeekingChange
Wed Sep 15, 2021 9:03 pm
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: Is sex a priority over all?
Replies: 18
Views: 533

Is sex a priority over all?

This is a spin off from a comment made in the "sexual vows" thread , emphasis mine. I didn't want to rabbit trail it even more. Sex is the foundation of marriage. It joins the couple physically, Sex must take priority over the non-sexual aspects of marriage, and prioritized accordingly. @M...

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