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by LBD
Mon Sep 20, 2021 5:25 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: Signals for partners for sexy time
Replies: 20
Views: 1137

Re: Signals for partners for sexy time

newwifenewlife wrote: Mon Sep 20, 2021 2:01 am Last night DW got in bed naked and her embrace with a gentle kiss upon my coming to bed was all that needed to communicate I was “getting lucky”. 😁
Missing that would be like….. well….like missing the naked woman in your bed :lol:
by LBD
Mon Sep 20, 2021 5:18 am
Forum: Marriage Books, Resources, Blogs, Sites
Topic: Radical Sex: God's foundation for a healthy marriage -- book report
Replies: 2
Views: 87

Re: Radical Sex: God's foundation for a healthy marriage -- book report

I’ve not read the book and probably won’t, but I have some disagreement with your thoughts below. Then they say "Sex has many benefits, but the primary one, from God's perspective, is avoiding temptation." WHAT??? A benefit, for sure, but does that that outweigh sex as an expression of lov...
by LBD
Mon Sep 20, 2021 4:45 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 09/20/2021 - Attractiveness with Aging?
Replies: 16
Views: 262

Re: 09/20/2021 - Attractiveness with Aging?

Physical beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so no answer is right or wrong. In general I think the male mind and eye is drawn to youth and the promise of fecundity. Female mind’s eye may be more drawn to security and providence that typically comes with some maturity in the male. Then there are e...
by LBD
Sun Sep 19, 2021 7:15 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 09/16/2021 - Have you noticed "sexual seasons" in your marriage?
Replies: 6
Views: 272

Re: 09/16/2021 - Have you noticed "sexual seasons" in your marriage?

I will use some economic terms here - I have seen macro and micro seasons in our marriage. The macros being more slow attitudinal changes that are years in their development. Maybe somewhat resembling the typical “phases” that are often mentioned, but not necessarily in that order, though they do so...
by LBD
Sun Sep 19, 2021 6:07 am
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: Is sex a priority over all?
Replies: 18
Views: 534

Re: Is sex a priority over all?

…… these tasks only exist because of the marital covenant, which is based on the sexual union of the spouses. ^^^^^^^ ::praise Sex can certainly be overemphasized or prioritized at the expense of other relational efforts and thus cause issues within the marriage. There is often a rebound effect to ...
by LBD
Fri Sep 17, 2021 8:32 pm
Forum: Attitudes about Sex
Topic: sexual vows? (think promises or commitment)
Replies: 55
Views: 2762

Re: sexual vows? (think promises or commitment)

My lovely wife had a habit of rubbing my back in the evenings after a long day doing farrier work before we were married. I asked her “if we get married, you gonna keep this up?” Of course she said “yes.” You can guess the results. I could probably say with some good measure of truth she’s given me ...
by LBD
Fri Sep 17, 2021 12:38 pm
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 9/17/21 - Eliminating sex, what's 1-2 ways you enjoy connecting emotionally with your spouse?
Replies: 17
Views: 389

Re: 9/17/21 - Eliminating sex, what's 1-2 ways you enjoy connecting emotionally with your spouse?

Generally we enjoy accomplishing tasks together, usually around the farm or house. I married a city girl who embraced country life to the fullest. Most of the time she doesn't try to tell me how to do the things I grew up doing.... :roll: :lol: Example - last night we loaded, hauled, unloaded a smal...
by LBD
Fri Sep 17, 2021 12:34 pm
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 9/17/21 - Eliminating sex, what's 1-2 ways you enjoy connecting emotionally with your spouse?
Replies: 17
Views: 389

Re: 9/17/21 - Eliminating sex, what's 1-2 ways you enjoy connecting emotionally with your spouse?

ng95901 wrote: Fri Sep 17, 2021 8:51 am The answer for us is simple...me giving her a reflexology foot massage while we are in bed watching TV. Happens every night before we go to sleep...
...how did I know it would be something involving feet..... :lol:
by LBD
Fri Sep 17, 2021 4:29 am
Forum: Introduce Yourself!
Topic: Stephany96
Replies: 15
Views: 1558

Re: Stephany96

Welcome and congratulations! It’s gratifying to hear of a young couple doing things God’s way and thriving, as it should be. Keep your eyes on Him and the inertia will carry you through the hard times. It’s also good to hear of a young couple staying on the farm - a field I know well (pun intended.)...
by LBD
Fri Sep 17, 2021 4:18 am
Forum: Question of the Day
Topic: 09/14/21 - Would you rather...
Replies: 26
Views: 589

Re: 09/14/21 - Would you rather...

There’s an old song that says “I wish that I knew what I know now when I was younger.” If that were the case, I’d do HS again for sure. Things would evolve differently this time around. But then again, if I did that, many great things might not come along…..so…

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