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What’s the longest time you and your spouse have not made love (PIV or to the point of orgasm for either of you) for a reason other than being refused

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Re: What’s the longest time you and your spouse have not made love (PIV or to the point of orgasm for either of you) for

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With the exception of three deliveries, twenty five days has been the longest. And that’s as of today as she’s been presently recovering from COVID illness. She’s much improved and I’m hoping that we are incredibly intimate later today.
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About 6 months after the birth of our oldest. DW's doctor allowed a good deal of tearing. Attempting intercourse caused intense pain for her, and we were young and naive and didn't try anything else, so it was frustrating. My angel of a wife continued to be willing and tried until it finally worked out again. Thank the heavens.
There have been other dry spells (6 weeks after the three other births, 12 weeks after hysterectomy, maybe some others) but that first one was the hardest.
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Re: What’s the longest time you and your spouse have not made love (PIV or to the point of orgasm for either of you) for

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Angler2 wrote: Mon Aug 30, 2021 8:48 am And that’s as of today as she’s been presently recovering from COVID illness.
COVID was a sex killer for us. Even my husband lost his drive/desire, and if one has been around long enough to know his drive, that's saying something. ;)
God can change what people do, behavioral patterns that have been in play for decades. He can change what we do to cope, to find comfort, to survive conflict, to count. Rahab had done a same old thing for years... and then she did something new.
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Re: What’s the longest time you and your spouse have not made love (PIV or to the point of orgasm for either of you) for

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SeekingChange wrote: Mon Aug 30, 2021 1:13 pm
Angler2 wrote: Mon Aug 30, 2021 8:48 am And that’s as of today as she’s been presently recovering from COVID illness.
COVID was a sex killer for us. Even my husband lost his drive/desire, and if one has been around long enough to know his drive, that's saying something. ;)
Did the drive return after he recovered?
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Re: What’s the longest time you and your spouse have not made love (PIV or to the point of orgasm for either of you) for

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FLLYDVTD1 wrote: Mon Aug 30, 2021 2:04 pm Did the drive return after he recovered?
Yes, fully.
God can change what people do, behavioral patterns that have been in play for decades. He can change what we do to cope, to find comfort, to survive conflict, to count. Rahab had done a same old thing for years... and then she did something new.
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The longest we have gone is the 6 week period of time after the birth of our three children.
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We did the proper waiting period after all the child birth's, and after the *-rectomies (uterus-erectomy, ovaries-hysterectomy, etc.), but probably not one day more. Those are too far back to remember the exact period.

I traveled extensively during my career and had periods when I was gone up to 3-4 weeks at a time, so those absences are the ones that I would cite for this question. There were less than a dozen of those that long, but there were plenty of one week, two week absences; much more of a common occurrence.
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