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I like the idea of using a penis pump on myself beforehand, so I feel a little different inside her (without her seeing).
I also like the idea of her blindfolded and earplugged while she uses her vibrator. I come in the room after my shower and watch her a bit and then start touching her, but she doesn't know when I'll arrive or what I'll do.
Do folks here have any good blindfold ideas?
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If you're already doing it, that's a different story. Again, the higher the state of arousal, the more senses will be heightened. Here's a few ideas to try...
- Make sure you've been wooing her all day. Put a blindfold on when she comes home (or when you want to start your adventure) and take her on a slow journey of taste and touch. Make it an evening/event. You could even feed her a lite dinner of snacks or finger foods and converse with her while you get things ready and then go on to the following...
OR just start here:
- Start with a long back massage and then if you sense arousal, when turning over, put the blindfold on OR have a towel ready to drape over her eyes.
- use different textures (silky, feather, smooth, ribbed or raised, glass, fruit, whip cream, body paint, etc.)
- temps (cold, warm: various things like food, ice, oils,)
- feed her various fruit
- teasing, lingering touch (don't just go for the "gusto", increase desire by teasing, nearing or brushing but not direct stimulation to increase desire/arousal)
- vary the types of pressure
- kiss all over (again, don't just go for the "gusto", tease and find new erogenous zones around the face, neck, arms, legs, knees, hips, toes, stomach, etc.
WORD TO THE WISE: 1) don't heat up things in the microwave, use warmed water to raise the temp 2) touch the object yourself first to confirm its temp.
Try putting it on before you start having sex and then proceed as normal.
Slowly remove her clothes and touch her, making sure to tease and play with sensations.
Don't get too het up about specifics, just play around, explore and enjoy.
Oh, and try getting her to give you oral sex while you're blindfolded.